Recently I overheard a father and daughter
in their last moments together at the airport. They had announced the
departure. Standing near the security gate, they
hugged and the father said...
'I love you, and I wish you enough.'
The daughter replied...
'Dad, our life
together has been more than enough. Your love is all I ever needed.
I wish you enough, too, Dad.'
They kissed and the daughter left.
The Father walked over to the window where I was seated. Standing there I
could see he wanted and needed to cry. I tried not to intrude on his
privacy, but he welcomed me in by asking...
'Did you ever say good-bye to someone
knowing it would be forever?'
'Yes, I have,' I replied. 'Forgive me
for asking, but why is this a forever good-bye?'...
'I am old, and she lives so far away.
I have challenges ahead and the reality is - the next trip back will be for my
funeral,' he said.
'When you were saying good-bye, I heard you
say, 'I wish you enough..' May I ask what that means?'
He began to smile....
'That's a wish
that has been handed down from other generations. My parents used to say
it to everyone...'
He paused a moment and looked up as if trying to
remember it in detail, and he smiled even more. 'When we said, 'I wish you
enough,' we wanted the other person to have a life filled with just enough good
things to sustain them.'
Then turning toward me, he shared the following as if he were reciting it from memory.
I wish you enough sun to keep your attitude
bright no matter how grey the day may appear.
I wish you enough rain to appreciate the
sun even more.
I wish you enough happiness to keep your spirit alive and everlasting.
I wish you enough pain so that even the
smallest of joys in life may appear bigger.
I wish you enough gain to satisfy your
wanting.
I wish you enough loss to appreciate all that you possess.
I wish you enough hellos to get you through
the final good-bye.
He then began to cry and walked away.
They say it takes a minute to find a
special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them; but then an
entire life to forget them.
Stay tuned and Wish Enough...!
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