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Tuesday, February 9, 2010

Loyalty…!?!



Of all the virtues and values the one continuously pops up to top the list time and again is the loyalty.
What is loyalty?
How can we define loyalty?
Can we measure the loyalty?
Is it possible to introduce loyalty?
What are the factors governing loyalty?
How to employ the virtue of loyalty in a person?
What could be the repercussions of disloyalty?
And finally…
Is loyalty extinct?

Well that is quite a questionnaire and we would try to go really slow and in-detail on this one.

The dictionary says loyalty is - The state or quality of being loyal.
It further says – faithful adherence to a sovereign, government, leader, cause, etc.
But will this suffice? Well, I would like to differ…

Being loyal starts with your own soul, morale and conscious
It then extends to your family and relations
On it’s progress it should encompass society in general
Then comes your profession or position
Here we can add the government or organization to the list
Gradually it should attend the nation or constitution
And to sum it up it should be regarded to the universe or planet. Nature, you can call it.



Although for the sake of statistics we have defined a chronological list, loyalty is and should be integral and consistent and not something that is flexible or ever-changing

Being loyal is like being non-violent. The only requisite is
- Not to kill the faith – of anybody or anything including self.
- Doing only the things that would not give you sleepless nights or restlessness.
- Believing in what you do and doing it wholeheartedly
- Always feeling guiltless and self-respectable
- Holding your head high and not being afraid of direct eye-contact
- Having a noble and righteous purpose for all your deeds
- Never compromising on grounds of helplessness, pressure, need or circumstances
- Being dependable and true to everyone and everything
- unwavering in devotion to friend or vow or cause

Monday, February 8, 2010

Temper...!?!



A Zen student came to Bankei and complained: "Master, I have an ungovernable temper. How can I cure it?"
"You have something very strange," replied Bankei. "Let me see what you have."
"Just now I cannot show it to you," replied the other.
"When can you show it to me?" asked Bankei.
"It arises unexpectedly," replied the student.


"Then," concluded Bankei, "it must not be your own true nature. If it were, you could show it to me at any time. When you were born you did not have it, and your parents did not give it to you. Think that over."

Friday, February 5, 2010

Introduction...!?!



Don't get puzzled by the title. And there is no need to worry about my sanity as well. I am completely in my senses and haven’t consumed anything that will make me drowse…

Today is my Post no. 40! This means I have been posting for more than a month now. And if you are still following me (???), you would be interested in knowing what else I do, I hope. Because Blogging could be fun, excitement, relief or inspiration but it hardly can earn living unless you’re selling something through it.

Wait, don’t jump to the conclusions and don’t make face like
‘You Too Brutus!!’
I just thought that it would be a good idea to let my readers (???) introduce to the professional side of my being. That’s it…!!!



If you are interested, you can download, read, analyze, respond, comment, share, distribute and recommend my Intro Letter here. (Right Click and Select 'Save Target As...' )

Now, don’t give me that OOPS impression…!!!


Thursday, February 4, 2010

Relationship...!?!



What keeps a relationship strong is:

· The need for good will from others
· The need for emotional support
· The need to be heard by the other and to be responded to with respect and acceptance
· The need to have your own view, even if others have a different view
· The need to have your feelings and experience acknowledged as real
· The need to receive a sincere apology for any jokes or actions you find offensive
· The need for clear, honest and informative answers to questions about what affects you
· The need to for freedom from accusation, interrogation and blame
· The need to live free from criticism and judgment
· The need to have your work and your interests respected
· The need for encouragement
· The need for freedom from emotional and physical threat
· The need for freedom from angry outbursts and rage
· The need for freedom from labels which devalue you
· The need to be respectfully asked rather than ordered
· The need to have your final decisions accepted
· The need for privacy at times

And nurtured by -
1. Trust
2. Communication
3. Intimacy
4. A sense of humor
5. Sharing tasks
6. Some getaway time without business or children
7. Daily exchanges (meal, shared activity, hug, call, touch, notes, etc.)
8. Sharing common goals and interests
9. Giving each other space to grow without feeling insecure
10. Giving each other a sense of belonging and assurances of commitment



Wednesday, February 3, 2010

Wisdom...!?!



Akbar asked Birbal to write such a thing that would make you happy when you are sad and make you poignant when you are gay…

Birbal wrote…

‘This Too Will Pass…!’

Always keep this in mind.
Only constant thing ever is

C-H-A-N-G-E…!!!


Tuesday, February 2, 2010

MAD...!?!


Making A Difference : A Zen Tale

Ryokan was a Zen teacher of repute.

One day a fisherman saw him walking on the beach soon after a storm. The storm had washed up thousands of starfish on the shore, and they were beginning to dry up. Soon all of them would be dead. Ryokan was picking up starfish and throwing them into the sea.

The fisherman caught up with the teacher and said, “Surely, you cannot hope to throw all these starfish back into the sea? They will die in their thousands here. I’ve seen it happen before. Your effort will make no difference.”

Throwing back another starfish into the sea Ryokan said “It will to this one”...!

Monday, February 1, 2010

Conclusion...!?!



In last few weeks, we have seen the pictures about Global Warming and Green Peace.
Today let's meet some of the unsung and uncelebrated heroes of this Armageddon...!!